Yea so I met this really arrogant girl today at college I have met a few in my lifetime but so far she is the worst. She fking thinks she knows everything, and all she does is criticize and belittle people behind their backs. For the entire 20 mins that she sat at the table with me all she did was rant about how retarded her friends are or how weird/';sketchy'; a guy she met was. I wanted to avoid her because I REALLY HATE people who do that but she wanted to see my notes because she missed class yesterday. She was trying to be so nice to me and talking all sweet but it was sooo fake I wanted to puke so when I finally hand her my notes guess what she did....criticize the hell out of me me. ';Ugh you take too many notes';...';Eww you write too small and Wtf is this'; ';You need Penmanship (As if I WROTE MY NOTES MY ANYBODY ELSE BUT ME) '; Your notes need more organization'; '; Whats does this mean.....O u dont know? Where you even in class or did u just sit there with ur brain shut off'; And she just kept going on like that. It made me soo uncomfortable then her roomate comes in and the tension is soo thick u could cut it with a knife then when her roomate left she was talking how weird and antisocial she was. Omg plz plz I HATE HER sooo much but I have to do a group presentation with her so how can I survive? Plus she always dominates class discussions and rolls her eyes when anyboody else makes a comment saying ';duhhh'; under her breath. I really want to show her up tommorow so I'm gonna study really hard tonight so I can take her spotlight do u think it will work? Omg how do I deal with people like her?How do you deal with crazy egostistic know-it-alls.?
This is her way of trying to impress you. Obviously she likes you and wants to be friends with you.
Perhaps she isn't very good at making friends. But eventually she might learn and become better at it.How do you deal with crazy egostistic know-it-alls.?
People like that expect others to ';show them up'; for being a so-called ';know-it-all';. Their goal in life is to provoke others %26amp; make them feel inferior, basically. Don't give in to it, no matter how much of a snobby slime ball she is. The last thing you want is to satisfy her by stooping down to her low level. Be the bigger person in the situation. There are ways you can prove a point to someone w/o putting them in the intellectual spotlight. Whenever she makes some condescending comment, say something like, ';You know, it has been proven through scientific studies that people who constantly belittle others %26amp; are unnecessarily critical %26amp; rude to others aren't happy with themselves %26amp; have low self-esteem.'; But this will probably only work if you say it to her when she's in a group of people. Your aim is not exactly to humiliate her, but to help her realize that her condescension pretty much just displays what a pathetically unhappy person she is, %26amp; nothing more. Be a generally kind person to her to demonstrate how a person with self-respect %26amp; dignity acts.
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