Becoming comfortable with your sexual self?

Growing up I was told that sex is wrong and bad, etc. Now that I'm a young adult, I realize that this is hooey, but I've dug myself so deeply into a hole of self denial that I can't seem to get out.





Trying to be a ';good'; person for so long, I've never allowed myself to have a relationship and I've eaten to cover the loneliness. Well, I'm tired of it. I know that it is morally okay to fall in love and have ';those'; kinds of feelings... but I can't seem to express them. It feels like trying to write with my left hand. I'm so painfully inexperienced that I can't even begin to open myself up. I know I'm putting out a ';stay away'; vibe (because that's what I've always done), so I don't exactly have suitors beating down my door.





How does one easy comfortably into expressing their sexuality?





ThanksBecoming comfortable with your sexual self?
Your case sounds serious enough for a counselor. Only thing I can say is practice, practice, practice. Most guys were shy around girls at one time or another. You'll always be shy unless you practice. Even if you are not interested in a certain girl, try to find a pretty girl (to make it harder) and randomly start talking to her and maybe flirting. If you embarass yourself initially, you'll only get better. Worked for me.Becoming comfortable with your sexual self?
5 words:





let it all hang out.





like you said. ease into it. you can start by getting into porn. then move on to real women. start small and work your way up the confidence ladder.
I totally understand where you come from. I was raised up believing that, and when it came to judgement day, I panicked. After dumping guys when it became serious, one day I decided to myself, why sex is so bad. Safe sex is morally and socially acceptable. Sex is only bad to the close-minded, and I was more than that. I was knowledgable and I knew what the consequences would be. I also knew the benefits. Once I figured this all out FOR MYSELF, I feel fantastic.


I think the trick is for you to understand what it's all about. Once YOU figure it out, it'll be easy to confront your desires. What your going through is HUMAN. You are doing what nature intended, and there is nothing wrong about it. Just remember to practice it safely, and you can't go wrong.


Hope it goes well with you!

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